Blogger Friend School – #8 {Dirty Laundry}

Part 1

My laundry room is also my pantry, and is right off of the kitchen.  I do most of the laundry, although the four older children (ages 6-12) all know how to do it, and will switch it for me when asked or put a load in on occasion, usually when they need something.  My older three boys have three baskets downstairs: one for pants (because they always seem to run out of them!), one for darks, and one for lights.  The three little ones have one basket in their room for their dirty clothes, which I sort as I load it.  Dh and I have two baskets in our closet: one for darks, and one for lights.

I try to keep up with it, but is hard with so many of us, especially when I wind up being gone alot.  I do get frusterated when dh announces: "Do I have any…in these baskets??  Yes, my biggest struggle is with folding the laundry.  The older three almost always fold their clothes while I read to them, and my daughter, who just turned 6, folds the towels, rags and washclothes.  My two y/o is probably going to be starting to do that job, so she can start folding her clothes.  But there are full baskets of laundry sitting around the livingroom, more days than not.  I would like to get shelves in the laundry room so I can have plenty of space to fold it in there, but I haven’t gotten that far yet in our remodel.

Part 2

Hmm…I definitely struggle with anger, especially wih hollering at the kids.  Dh and I are really trying to change that.  I am definitely better than I used to be.  I rember crying once because I didn’t want them to remember me that way.  God is working in me to change that.  I have struggled with depression in the past as well.  It kind of runs in my family.  I have had to learn to give it all to God, and let Him carry me when I am feeling overburdened.  Trust is a big savior when faced with being overwhelmed.

Part 3

Colossians 3:8-17  But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.  Lie not one to another, seeing that ye have put off the old man with his deeds;  and have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him that created him:  where there is neither Greek nor Jew, circumcision nor uncircumcision, Barbarian, Scythian, bond nor free: but Christ is all, and in all.

Put on therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, bowels of mercies, kindness, humbleness of mind, meekness, longsuffering; forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye. And above all these things put on charity, which is the bond of perfectness.

And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to the which also ye are called in one body; and be ye thankfulLet the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom; teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.  And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.

This really made me think that just as we take off the dirty garments, we are to take off the old man, the man who is angry and hurtful, and put the clean clothes on, those of mercy, kindness, longsuffering, etc.  This verse really puts the first two parts together of this assignment.  I think I might make a plaque of this verse and hang it in the laundry room.

Off to switch loads for the night….

Frugal Friday – “Homemade” Recipes

HisWillingVessel has a great way to make microwave popcorn from scratch!  I can’t wait to pick up some kernels so we can try it!

She also has a neat sounding recipe for making your own vanilla extract!  I am hoping to find some vanilla beans today so I can make some.  It would be a great gift idea for the church families for Christmas!

I can’t wait to discover what else she has on her site.  Check them out!

Blogger Friend School: Assignment #6

This is me at 5 months old.  I still have this dress!

 Philippians 4:8-9

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Those things, which ye have both learned, and received, and heard, and seen in me, do: and the God of peace shall be with you.

I sang this at my brother’s and husband’s homeschool high school graduation.

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Miscellaneous

I wanted to get this down here before I forget it.

I was talking alone with my 12yo son on Sunday night, and I mentioned that I noticed he had been doing things with a boy from church when there had been tension before.  He said something to the effect of "Things got better after our schism.  We are getting along now."

I guess that History is sinking in!  I don’t think *I* even knew what a schism was until I taught about the schisms in the Middle Ages.

Thankful Thursday!

Thankful Thursday       

I really like this plan that I have.  It really helps me get started, but then I can’t stop!  It think all day long about what I can blog about!  LOL!

Today I am very thankful that we no longer live so far away from church.  A couple of years ago, we lived in Talkeetna and the church was meeting in South Anchorage at a member’s home at 10:30am.  That meant a 2.5 hour drive , and we had to leave by 8am.  It also meant needing snacks on the way to town and  having to grab food on the way home, as well as do grocery shopping, as we would try to utilize our being "in town."  We lived in a pretty rural area, with only a tiny country story, which was rather expensive, so buying for our big family had to be done in town.

After getting up at 6-6:30 and getting everyone out the door, all the driving, sitting through service, running around the grocery store, dealing with crabby kids and fussy babies, getting home late, and putting groceries away, my "Day of Rest" was anything but that!!  I craved the fellowship, and the time that I had my husband’s mostly undivided attention was very nice, but there were many Sundays that I really didn’t want to even think about going to church.  It was too much work!  It was too exhausting!

There is still one family in our congregation that has to travel a couple of hours to service.  I know it is very hard for them, and I am especially sensitive to the mother’s needs.  Fortunately, the services are now not in South Anchorage as we are renting a building at a midway point, and services are at 2pm, so no more early morning drives.  I am sure that she is still exhausted after the trek though.

I am so thankful that it is now only 40 minutes away from us, and we can participate in the other events easily as they come up.  No more sleeping on the floor at my parents house, just so we can be a part of the church.  Now, I just want to help make it easy on the family that isn’t so fortunate.  God is good!